MARRIAGE

I think the people are very individualist, in my opinion this is the reason why the marriage sometimes is difficult because the people have the costumes of their educations and many times enter into dispute for the differences of their couple, and here enter in game the respect for the other person, respect with love and objectivity.

For me, the marriage is teamwork, if one doesn’t work the game failed. Respect to individuality without selfishness, what I want to say with this? Ok, each person can respect the individuality the other insofar as no disrespect to that other. Be objective, don’t make to the other, what you do not like for you.

In the present, we have to think very well before “I do”, because it is a commitment for a long time, and say long time because I think “until death do us part” is a double-edged sword. Many people support many things for this promise, things as infidelity, physical, economical and psychological aggression for your couple, only to maintain the “promise”.

After say “I do” the work is very hard, not all is honeymoon or pink color, many times is dark but whit patience, love, objectivity and respect, can be a very nice relationship. The marriage is like a cooking recipe, has many ingredients and requires dedication.

And when we are successful dentists, lawyers, engineers, highly successful women in short, please make a prenuptial agreement… Never really know who would say “I do”. ;0)